27 July 2011

The electronic tether

During CPE so many years ago, two decades ago mas or menos, I hated having the pager because it would beep, calling me to some emergency, usually someone dying or who had died... I never knew if it would go off; in fact, on my days of carrying it, the thing only went off once. Lo, these many years later, I probably would do better.


Nowadays there is a new sort of pager in a different context and it is called a smart phone... the old cell phone was not nearly as invasive, though it could be sometimes. The smart phone, however, can totally upset one's life no matter where one is (that is, if one is dumb enough to check email).

Yesterday, en route to the beach with my family on a two-day break to visit with my sister from the west and nephew from the big city, I happened to check my email to get a note related to work that was sufficiently problematic as to upset the emotional balance for the rest of the day. And, so, even though the day was glorious at the beach, and I enjoyed walking down the beach with my sister and nephew and then standing in the water (jellyfish so I did not swim), inside, I was totally off-kilter, worried and anxious. Said problem will not be resolved until next week at the earliest so I will continue to be in that state of flux.

And then there was talking to the canon to the ordinary as I drove down to my parents', and fielding frantic phone messages from parishioners in distress...

Lest anyone think that part-time priests don't earn their keep, let me remind them of the electronic tether.

4 comments:

it's margaret said...

Oh dear!!!!! That's awful! Hardly time off. Get a separate phone/email for personal use!!!

Caminante said...

By tomorrow I will finally (after 2.5 years) have a separate account that will simply be 'rector' (even though I am not) so that whoever comes after me can also use the address. Evidently my predecessors used their names; I tried to get this initiated when I first arrived but the non-techies did not understand what I was asking and then this morning after scolding me for being overly connected (!) got what I had asked for so long ago. Can't win for losing.

Fran said...

Oh my dear!!! Prayers!

Gillian said...

I'm just setting up such things in my new call. Main problem is how to have 2 cell phone numbers but only carry one physical cell phone. So far the options seem to be Google Voice or Line2. I'm trying Line2 for my "work" cell number. Don't know how I'll like it, or how well it will ID callers for me so I know whether to ignore or pick up.